North Bergen Mourns the Loss of Beloved Committeeman John Bender, A Tireless Voice for the Community

July 3, 2025

North Bergen is mourning the loss of one of its most dedicated public servants, John Bender, a lifelong resident, Democratic committeeman, and cherished member of the township’s civic family. Bender passed away peacefully on the morning of July 3, 2025, surrounded by his loving daughters as the music of Elton John played softly in the background—a fitting farewell for a man whose life was defined by love, family, and service.

For decades, John Bender was a well-known figure throughout the North Bergen community. His unmistakable voice and passionate advocacy for doing what was right earned him the respect and admiration of residents from all walks of life. Whether it was through his work on the Zoning Board of Adjustment, his years of service with the North Bergen Board of Education, or his tireless commitment as a Democratic committeeman, Bender always put his community first.

“Dad was a good man with a big heart. He was the best father in the entire world,” his daughter, Reann Bender, shared. “He’s at peace now with his parents to guide him. He will be missed greatly.”

Mayor Nicholas Sacco announced Bender’s passing on Thursday, expressing profound sorrow on behalf of the township and the North Bergen Democratic Municipal Committee.

“It is with a heavy heart that we inform everyone of the passing of our beloved committeeman, John Bender,” Sacco said. “John’s dedication to North Bergen was unmatched. He was always a vocal and passionate advocate for what was right. On behalf of myself, the Commissioners, and the entire North Bergen community, we extend our deepest sympathy to John’s family.”

John Bender’s roots in the area ran deep. He was the proud son of James R. Bender Sr., who operated the original Mr. Big’s Super Hero’s on Willow Avenue in Hoboken—an institution in its own right. Like his father, John became a beloved local figure, always ready to lend his voice, his time, and his heart to making North Bergen a better place.

Commissioner Allen Pascual offered his heartfelt condolences, saying, “My deepest condolences go out to John’s family. RIP John.” Commissioner Hugo Cabrera added, “Our deepest condolences go out to John’s family and friends. He was very loved and will be missed.”

During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, when fear and uncertainty gripped the community, John Bender quietly became a beacon of gratitude and support. Out of his own pocket, he personally purchased and delivered countless pizza boxes to police departments, fire stations, and EMS crews throughout the North Hudson area. It was his way of thanking the frontline heroes who were risking their lives each day. This selfless act, done without fanfare or expectation, perfectly captured the kind of man John was—someone who always put others first and never missed an opportunity to lift up those around him.

Friends, neighbors, and colleagues remember Bender as a man of great integrity and compassion—a steadfast champion for North Bergen who never hesitated to stand up for the community he loved so dearly. His presence at township meetings, local events, and civic gatherings was a constant over the years. His voice—always firm, always fair—became a beacon for those who believed in honest public service.

A wake in his honor will be held on Monday, July 7, from 2 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Vainieri Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow on Tuesday at 10:45 a.m. at Immaculate Conception Church.

John Bender’s passing leaves a profound void in North Bergen, but his legacy of service, courage, and kindness will forever echo through the streets he called home. The community he so passionately fought for is stronger because of him.